Thursday, October 14, 2004
[[is she..? - 14.10.04]]
Hmm.. I was having an email conversation with one of my gd frens in stm today and we touched on the subject of d one i like again..
I remember telling my fren that love is a give and take thing.. but that doesnt mean that the person whom u like might accept what you have for him/her..
In reply.. my fren fwded an email to me.. Yah.. Itz actually a forwarded mail bt i felt that it was quite meaningful and decided to tk context out of it.. Here it goes..
A relationship should not be built upon fear, insecurity and pity. There are good matches out there, but if there are too many ifs, and or buts then sooner or ater the relationship will fail. Now that doesn't mean you will break up, you could stay together for the rest of your lives and still fail as a couple.
There are alot of false information about relationships out there. One of the biggest lies is that opposites attract. That is really just a myth. Now alot of the things listed above do come down to personal choice.
It comes down to what you are and are not willing to accept. Just because you have fallen in love with someone does not mean hat they are the right one for you. The number of people in physically or emotionally abusive relationships should be testament enough to that.
One thing is for sure. Do not settle for something less than you want because you are scared of hurting them, being alone or you feel this might be the best you can get. You never know what you might have missed that was right around the corner. Settling is always settling, no matter how you look at it. By doing so, you will be left with a lifetime of "what ifs".
My own thoughts:
I always believed each person's flaws is his/her own characteristic.. One which no1 can imitate.. I like you for you.. You are just so "my sassy girl".. lolx..
[bottomline:]so attracted..
emotionally charged.-evewbb 9:57 PM
